Growing up

Growing up

As it is evident  from the name of my blog gyanoholics  that it is about gyan in English termed as knowledge and it is for those who are interested in knowing about things and for me  knowledge is every where  that is why I never write on any particular topic  today I have decided to write on a very important  and  very crucial issue   growing up .It is a small initiative to share my thoughts my piece of knowledge I may  or may not  be good  at it  but it is my small effort :)

note: please do not kindly copy this sketch as it is made by me :)

Do you remember   the day when you really felt from within the need to laugh as  freely  as you used to when you were  10 years old . Have you even  spend a single day of your life not worrying for the future and living carelessly  like  you used  when you were a kid   now that is what we call as growing up  , when we grow we tend to have increased worries ,immense  work pressure and responsibilities .

Is that all ?The answer is a big no. As  each coin  has two sides  everything has its' pros and cons  same is the case with growing up .Indeed  when we  grow are responsibilities tend to increase so is our work pressure  but if you  look at the brighter side we also  grow in term of experiences we meet  new people  ,places , we have experiences that teaches us many lessons some good some bad  we make new friends,  we  make  mistakes  (as we know  human is to err )  but  we learn to forgive and forget  and let go .Not only this  we  play more important  role in our family  we are no more anybody's responsibility we tend to become independent  and we have the strength to provide a shoulder to lean  ,we can support our families be there for them and be an asset to them we  become capable to serve  our society, be of some use to  our nation  ,we can become almost  anything  just  if we  are persistent  .We learn the essence of life  the key to success that is patience   we also learn what is known as healthy competition .

  

Awesome  we can  do so much   just by growing up isn't that wonderful  but for few  this process is a tough one owing to many reasons and let me  tell you the fact  most of us  go through this thing  and consider it as the most toughest  phase of our life as  suddenly everything changes  when we are a kid  we are protected by our parents   taught  good things we have no ideas of bad and evils  but as we grow up  the real world is far more different from our fairytale world  we are no more that much protected  that scares  the hell out of us .

 Growing up  and growing old are two different thing  most of us can grow old  but not grow up we all grow in terms of our age  but growing up is our choice  i am not saying   that we should  forget  the mantra  that always remain a child from inside I am an ardent supporter of that its' just growing up a bit  may help us to become more responsible and helpful to our people and will enable us to have more opportunities and more experiences .

A short poem by me : 

the more Igrow  

the more I know 

world  is not limited to birds and crow

it is far more than that 

I can bet on that 

we do not come in the world  just like that

we have a role to play 

it is  not just another day 

each day counts 

life is as high as mounts 

Growing up should  be understood in a very well manner as it is important for us it should not be confused  with growing old neither  only it should be judged by its' one aspect of increased work pressure   other aforesaid good aspects should be considered.I hope my article may help you in this subject :)