What should I do ???????????????
Hello readers :) thanks for giving your valuable time and reading my blog :) my today's topic is bit confusing as this I find the most toughest question which we face and by this I do not intend to give any career advises as even I am a student who is still in the search of her dreams and interests and career should always be one's own choice without anybody's intervention and advises in these areas advises are usually futile :p . There are numerous situation where we have to decide . Decision such a heavy word as heavy as stone and tough to take as our decision determines our future . As human is to err we take many wrong decision and regret it later so lets make an effort to regret less and think more logically and with utmost optimism .
THE first and foremost rule of taking a decision is not to overthink it is a curse as it causes many confusions and conflicts and there is a mammoth battle going on within ourselves between our heart and head as they are enemies for life they never coordinate and cooperate hence the foremost task is not to overthink .It is a tough task but self control helps as they say patience is the key .
The next is to analyse the situation and evaluate pros and cons it is all similar to planning process we study in business studies study the situation find the possible solutions (rational one obviously ) and negatives for example : SAM a girl she is in a situation where she is more creatively inclined and her health is her issue and she has to find variety of creative careers in which her health cannot become her drawback . She first made a decision that she does not wish to do routine work and wants to pursue her interest and then she find possibilities.
The next step is bit crucial sometimes seek advises I call it crucial because advises are from others who are not as aware of us as much we are we know what and how we feel but sometimes we get so much puzzled in ourselves (specially in our 20 s ) at that we always need someone who will help us to sail through our problems they may even be god sent :)
The last step is to take decisions which obviously is crucial and important and we human have to face this step and that too with all the possible optimism as negativity and anger lead us to nowhere .This is the actual application stage .
Decisions may vary from situations to situations it can be a small decision or a big decision such as career whatever the case may be these above steps do help always remember decision today determines tomorrow always try to take a better decision be happy be safe :)
Hello readers :) thanks for giving your valuable time and reading my blog :) my today's topic is bit confusing as this I find the most toughest question which we face and by this I do not intend to give any career advises as even I am a student who is still in the search of her dreams and interests and career should always be one's own choice without anybody's intervention and advises in these areas advises are usually futile :p . There are numerous situation where we have to decide . Decision such a heavy word as heavy as stone and tough to take as our decision determines our future . As human is to err we take many wrong decision and regret it later so lets make an effort to regret less and think more logically and with utmost optimism .
THE first and foremost rule of taking a decision is not to overthink it is a curse as it causes many confusions and conflicts and there is a mammoth battle going on within ourselves between our heart and head as they are enemies for life they never coordinate and cooperate hence the foremost task is not to overthink .It is a tough task but self control helps as they say patience is the key .
The next is to analyse the situation and evaluate pros and cons it is all similar to planning process we study in business studies study the situation find the possible solutions (rational one obviously ) and negatives for example : SAM a girl she is in a situation where she is more creatively inclined and her health is her issue and she has to find variety of creative careers in which her health cannot become her drawback . She first made a decision that she does not wish to do routine work and wants to pursue her interest and then she find possibilities.
The next step is bit crucial sometimes seek advises I call it crucial because advises are from others who are not as aware of us as much we are we know what and how we feel but sometimes we get so much puzzled in ourselves (specially in our 20 s ) at that we always need someone who will help us to sail through our problems they may even be god sent :)
The last step is to take decisions which obviously is crucial and important and we human have to face this step and that too with all the possible optimism as negativity and anger lead us to nowhere .This is the actual application stage .
Decisions may vary from situations to situations it can be a small decision or a big decision such as career whatever the case may be these above steps do help always remember decision today determines tomorrow always try to take a better decision be happy be safe :)
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