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Expectations 

Hello  everybody wishing you all a very happy new year  may this year  bring joy peace  love and blessings :)

Now coming to today's topic expectations  you all  must have  some sort  of expectations  regarding your work career  love life  etc  (as  list always goes on  :P  we humans  are like that only :P ) it just does not end   many  movies and  serials  are made on these   khawashein   song from heroine movie is  also  about expectations (my favorite :P)   so  basically  world is full of expectations some  are  right some wrong .



friend  or foe 

expectations  can be our best friend  as  when we expect   we  tend to  take initiative  but expectations  can be our real enemy  when taken  wrong route  to make it  simpler when  expectations are    right  like  which can be fulfilled  then it is our  friend  and it gives a sense of direction  for instance  a student tend  to expect  certain percentage  and  work hard  accordingly   expectations takes  ugly turn  when  these are wrong in nature   best example  is  we  human  always   have  wrong expectations  from our loved ones  and  when they do not meet them  we get heart broken  and sometimes  we  overexpect many  things from ourselves   we forget  we are humans  and  we  start treating ourselves  like a machine ,


So  to   sum up   expectations  are not a problem  when it is right  and reachable  and it  is  a mammmoth problem when  converted into over or wrong expectation



few lines by me :

I   expect  you to  respect
 even if I  constantly  suspect
sometimes  even I wonder  I overexpect
my faith  in you  and  my work for you  should compel you
your  feelings  should not be forced it should be true
if you do not like me I have no right to object
that is your subject :)


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