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Hello readers :) my today's post is not at all spooky as the title is sounding :P  it's about fading innocence and how growing up  changes us.When we  are kids  we are different individual we are naive, super friendly , always happy go lucky types but as we grow up  we learn that  we have to maintain  distance  from certain people as there  are BAD people in this  world too  we have to  take care of ourselves on our own  we have to  choose our company wisely etc etc  all these  changes are sometime hard to handle  as they say growing up is not so easy  in all these changes we always  need guidance and love and  most of all  we must inculcate the habit of  having patience  with others and  with ourselves too.







Now talking about fading innocence it can be understood in two ways that how children today are loosing their innocence  because of  our world famous  idiot box TELEVISION  children  see irrelevant things from it and ape it  (as children  are monkeys :P just kidding)   my mom says children are like  blank paper they will become whatever they are taught . In my neighborhood there is a little girl who comes to play with me every evening  I have noticed that she talks about things which are above her age and sometimes while talking to her even I feel  I am talking to an adult she shows very less signs of innocence this is saddening these people should play  outside should enjoy a happy childhood instead of  replicating what's there  in that idiot box  and even nuclear family system sometimes affect them and they get glued to television I am not an ardent supporter of joint family system as it has it's own disadvantages but  if  possible  children should be with friends or family more than that  idiot box  which rarely tells what's right or wrong .


The  second way to understand fading innocence is observing teens  they learn mean things  and want to be deemed as  cool  all these leads to the much discussed vicious circle  of peer pressure which snatches the simplicity and innocence of an individual and all these even leads to depression and anxiety in teens .The feeling of unnecessary  hatred ,comparisons ,attention seeking behavior arises due to this. The team spirit ,the will to do something good for the society all these are ignored above all the  innocence is lost .


Certain changes  are required  to save these  burning dolls from loosing their innocence before it's too late .





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