Silent sinner
Hello reader's my today's post is a bit of a paradox as earlier I have said that silence is blessing but in today's post I am going to tell you about when silence can be a biggest mistake.As I personally believe that silence is very useful technique for dealing with idiots but it is a huge ,huge, huge mistake when it is used as a tool for dealing with pains which requires people to speak up so that the guilty party is dealt sternly.
I come across n number of people dealing with domestic violence,child abuse stories and people not opening up because of fear of society people like those who in Damini's case said that she should not have taken the bus at night thereby somewhere taking dig at that poor girl and many more rubbish stories.I have seen innocent girls who don't meet people ,suffer social anxiety because their MMS was leaked by the guy whom they trusted the most ,the person who meant the world for her .
One month ago I met a social activist she told me that when it comes to getting the men punished who abused them women back out and the reason for it is their soft heart.The best advice I have ever had from anybody was of her that women should be extremely unforgiving in such cases but this also calls for action on part of women in our society who due to their fear of what may happen to their kids,family or any other reason remain silent.
As I call it the one who hides the crime is the biggest criminal .
It is not the only women in cases of child abuse it's the victim's parents only who hide such reality as it was perfectly presented in highway how Alia's mother knew about her uncle's misbehavior with her but kept silent this is the true and dark side of our society which needs light not only the girl but boy's suffer the same abuse and their family keeps quiet as very well shown in story of a suicide.
To sum up I would like to say to all of you do not remain quiet in such matters fight because you are stronger than you think and braver than you imagine.
Hello reader's my today's post is a bit of a paradox as earlier I have said that silence is blessing but in today's post I am going to tell you about when silence can be a biggest mistake.As I personally believe that silence is very useful technique for dealing with idiots but it is a huge ,huge, huge mistake when it is used as a tool for dealing with pains which requires people to speak up so that the guilty party is dealt sternly.
I come across n number of people dealing with domestic violence,child abuse stories and people not opening up because of fear of society people like those who in Damini's case said that she should not have taken the bus at night thereby somewhere taking dig at that poor girl and many more rubbish stories.I have seen innocent girls who don't meet people ,suffer social anxiety because their MMS was leaked by the guy whom they trusted the most ,the person who meant the world for her .
One month ago I met a social activist she told me that when it comes to getting the men punished who abused them women back out and the reason for it is their soft heart.The best advice I have ever had from anybody was of her that women should be extremely unforgiving in such cases but this also calls for action on part of women in our society who due to their fear of what may happen to their kids,family or any other reason remain silent.
As I call it the one who hides the crime is the biggest criminal .
It is not the only women in cases of child abuse it's the victim's parents only who hide such reality as it was perfectly presented in highway how Alia's mother knew about her uncle's misbehavior with her but kept silent this is the true and dark side of our society which needs light not only the girl but boy's suffer the same abuse and their family keeps quiet as very well shown in story of a suicide.
To sum up I would like to say to all of you do not remain quiet in such matters fight because you are stronger than you think and braver than you imagine.
To remain silent in every situation does not help. One must understand the need to speak whenever it is required. You have raised a very important issue. Hopefully people will understand the need to speak in some situations for the betterment of society in general.
ReplyDeleteindeed it is very important as it is the most devastating crime and being silent on such matter makes the victim equal to the sinner as they are damaging themselves more than the sinner
DeleteWell we need to be vocal when it comes to situations that are very important. Lead as an example or else will remain silent forever because it will never lead to anything. We need to speak up for the good!
ReplyDeleteThe Solitary Writer
totally agree in these cases silence is sin hope my post gives courage to at least few to speak up
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