Detachment
Hello readers:) my today's post is about the toughest phase of our life the detachment phase according to me attachment is a n easy task we meet a person we create memories and we become attached to that person and only few of people stay with us so the toughest task is to get detached from the rest of them and it is even tougher if it includes with whom you always wanted to be with like a person you loved and imagined your whole life with or a friend you thought would never leave your side and sometimes both of the thing in a single person the one who was ultra special to you the one who meant the world to you it was easy to meet them and be with them then life plays it dirty games and you get seperated in some cases they are near you also but you cannot be with them because being with them would require you to reveal a lot about you and their immaturity may not allow them to understand your situation so you start fearing and as a result you learn to detach but my question is is it really so easy to get detach ? The smile,the memories ,the stupid giggles can they be easily forgotten my answer is a big NO I thing detachment is the worst feeling it leaves a void in us making us to believe there is no worst place in this world than your empty heart you cannot explain what's going on inside it/'s a mess a complete mess easier to write about it rather speak about it so this detachment keeps you wondering whether are you totally detach or is there still something left any bit any pieces any regret that may be it could have been sorted or may be that person had little bit more maturity to understand your silence but you know what in cases where your silence is not understood it's better to leave as they are not yours in that case they have no time to think about you or understand your storm.
Detachment on the other hand is necessary when things cannot be sort out as it will create more hell in your life to be stuck with someone who has no understanding of your depth in such cases it is better move on and start afresh as they say you cannot read a new chapter if you keep re reading the previous pages.
I would like to conclude if you are stuck in a toxic relationship with anybody be your boyfriend/girlfriend , friend and parents just detach yourself i know it's easier said than done
but it's better to cry a little today than crying for your whole life to put it simply prevention is better than cure so all you dear reader's delete the number of all your toxic ones even if you are very much used to them bid them a big goodbye delete them from your social media and people connected to them or anything which reminds you of them and start afresh because you deserve all happiness of this world keep smiling love shruti :)
Hello readers:) my today's post is about the toughest phase of our life the detachment phase according to me attachment is a n easy task we meet a person we create memories and we become attached to that person and only few of people stay with us so the toughest task is to get detached from the rest of them and it is even tougher if it includes with whom you always wanted to be with like a person you loved and imagined your whole life with or a friend you thought would never leave your side and sometimes both of the thing in a single person the one who was ultra special to you the one who meant the world to you it was easy to meet them and be with them then life plays it dirty games and you get seperated in some cases they are near you also but you cannot be with them because being with them would require you to reveal a lot about you and their immaturity may not allow them to understand your situation so you start fearing and as a result you learn to detach but my question is is it really so easy to get detach ? The smile,the memories ,the stupid giggles can they be easily forgotten my answer is a big NO I thing detachment is the worst feeling it leaves a void in us making us to believe there is no worst place in this world than your empty heart you cannot explain what's going on inside it/'s a mess a complete mess easier to write about it rather speak about it so this detachment keeps you wondering whether are you totally detach or is there still something left any bit any pieces any regret that may be it could have been sorted or may be that person had little bit more maturity to understand your silence but you know what in cases where your silence is not understood it's better to leave as they are not yours in that case they have no time to think about you or understand your storm.
Detachment on the other hand is necessary when things cannot be sort out as it will create more hell in your life to be stuck with someone who has no understanding of your depth in such cases it is better move on and start afresh as they say you cannot read a new chapter if you keep re reading the previous pages.
I would like to conclude if you are stuck in a toxic relationship with anybody be your boyfriend/girlfriend , friend and parents just detach yourself i know it's easier said than done
but it's better to cry a little today than crying for your whole life to put it simply prevention is better than cure so all you dear reader's delete the number of all your toxic ones even if you are very much used to them bid them a big goodbye delete them from your social media and people connected to them or anything which reminds you of them and start afresh because you deserve all happiness of this world keep smiling love shruti :)
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