CHAPTER 1: What should I do ???????????????
Hello readers :) thanks for giving your valuable time and reading my blog :) my today's topic is bit confusing as this I find the most toughest question which we face and by this I do not intend to give any career advises as even I am a student who is still in the search of her dreams and interests and career should always be one's own choice without anybody's intervention and advises in these areas advises are usually futile :p . There are numerous situation where we have to decide . Decision such a heavy word as heavy as stone and tough to take as our decision determines our future . As human is to err we take many wrong decision and regret it later so lets make an effort to regret less and think more logically and with utmost optimism .
THE first and foremost rule of taking a decision is not to overthink it is a curse as it causes many confusions and conflicts and there is a mammoth battle going on within ourselves between our heart and head as they are enemies for life they never coordinate and cooperate hence the foremost task is not to overthink .It is a tough task but self control helps as they say patience is the key .
The next is to analyse the situation and evaluate pros and cons it is all similar to planning process we study in business studies study the situation find the possible solutions (rational one obviously ) and negatives for example : SAM a girl she is in a situation where she is more creatively inclined and her health is her issue and she has to find variety of creative careers in which her health cannot become her drawback . She first made a decision that she does not wish to do routine work and wants to pursue her interest and then she find possibilities.
The next step is bit crucial sometimes seek advises I call it crucial because advises are from others who are not as aware of us as much we are we know what and how we feel but sometimes we get so much puzzled in ourselves (specially in our 20 s ) at that we always need someone who will help us to sail through our problems they may even be god sent :)
The last step is to take decisions which obviously is crucial and important and we human have to face this step and that too with all the possible optimism as negativity and anger lead us to nowhere .This is the actual application stage .
Decisions may vary from situations to situations it can be a small decision or a big decision such as career whatever the case may be these above steps do help always remember decision today determines tomorrow always try to take a better decision be happy be safe :)
Hello readers :) thanks for giving your valuable time and reading my blog :) my today's topic is bit confusing as this I find the most toughest question which we face and by this I do not intend to give any career advises as even I am a student who is still in the search of her dreams and interests and career should always be one's own choice without anybody's intervention and advises in these areas advises are usually futile :p . There are numerous situation where we have to decide . Decision such a heavy word as heavy as stone and tough to take as our decision determines our future . As human is to err we take many wrong decision and regret it later so lets make an effort to regret less and think more logically and with utmost optimism .
THE first and foremost rule of taking a decision is not to overthink it is a curse as it causes many confusions and conflicts and there is a mammoth battle going on within ourselves between our heart and head as they are enemies for life they never coordinate and cooperate hence the foremost task is not to overthink .It is a tough task but self control helps as they say patience is the key .
The next is to analyse the situation and evaluate pros and cons it is all similar to planning process we study in business studies study the situation find the possible solutions (rational one obviously ) and negatives for example : SAM a girl she is in a situation where she is more creatively inclined and her health is her issue and she has to find variety of creative careers in which her health cannot become her drawback . She first made a decision that she does not wish to do routine work and wants to pursue her interest and then she find possibilities.
The next step is bit crucial sometimes seek advises I call it crucial because advises are from others who are not as aware of us as much we are we know what and how we feel but sometimes we get so much puzzled in ourselves (specially in our 20 s ) at that we always need someone who will help us to sail through our problems they may even be god sent :)
The last step is to take decisions which obviously is crucial and important and we human have to face this step and that too with all the possible optimism as negativity and anger lead us to nowhere .This is the actual application stage .
Decisions may vary from situations to situations it can be a small decision or a big decision such as career whatever the case may be these above steps do help always remember decision today determines tomorrow always try to take a better decision be happy be safe :)
CHAPTER 2 : A different perspective
A chair is simply a chair a a cotton is a a cotton what is so new about it this is an ordinary perspective that is so boring and obvious we must have a different perspective in order to combat that monotony. This is not only limited to just objects we must have different perspective in life as well specially our careers following the path so laid by others should not be adopted we all human are different with different needs wants so why follow others build yourself who you really are .
We all have some dreams an desires some known and some unknown to us and some buried inside us but should it die with us NO a big NO we all should dare to dream and should have the valor to fulfill it we have the right to do so and we should work for it. Our career must have the ability to define us career should not be made only for money but for fulfilling dreams so that it defines who we really are it is said when you make choices based on your dreams then a single day of work may not make you feel that you are working it gives you immense happiness .
This was about our dream now talking about different perspective in our lives with regard to people I begin with parents who are our first teacher our guide our everything who selflessly take care of us we must not consider them as burden after all they are ours and we must love them our brother sister etc our people we all are one we are gods' child we must forgive each other quickly who are we to punish anybody it is what almighty does .
A different perspective is necessary in order to lead a life which is a bit different than regular boring stuff love all be with all do what you love that is just a different perspective for me you may have your own different perspective too as people differs some may be fine with their usual stuff they are not wrong either they are fine with it let them be but if you even have a little knack of being different then do not suppress be your best version never shy away or be deterred away by peer pressure or anything ultimately you are who you actually are and that's' the best part :)
A chair is simply a chair a a cotton is a a cotton what is so new about it this is an ordinary perspective that is so boring and obvious we must have a different perspective in order to combat that monotony. This is not only limited to just objects we must have different perspective in life as well specially our careers following the path so laid by others should not be adopted we all human are different with different needs wants so why follow others build yourself who you really are .
We all have some dreams an desires some known and some unknown to us and some buried inside us but should it die with us NO a big NO we all should dare to dream and should have the valor to fulfill it we have the right to do so and we should work for it. Our career must have the ability to define us career should not be made only for money but for fulfilling dreams so that it defines who we really are it is said when you make choices based on your dreams then a single day of work may not make you feel that you are working it gives you immense happiness .
This was about our dream now talking about different perspective in our lives with regard to people I begin with parents who are our first teacher our guide our everything who selflessly take care of us we must not consider them as burden after all they are ours and we must love them our brother sister etc our people we all are one we are gods' child we must forgive each other quickly who are we to punish anybody it is what almighty does .
A different perspective is necessary in order to lead a life which is a bit different than regular boring stuff love all be with all do what you love that is just a different perspective for me you may have your own different perspective too as people differs some may be fine with their usual stuff they are not wrong either they are fine with it let them be but if you even have a little knack of being different then do not suppress be your best version never shy away or be deterred away by peer pressure or anything ultimately you are who you actually are and that's' the best part :)
CHAPTER 3 : RIGHT CHOICE
Do this do this that this is right no this is no no this is wrong these are the statements of our our well wishers when we make choices choices are nothing but the chances we take and changes that we make in our life which directly or indirectly effects those who are around us .A right choice be it our career or any other circumstances makes us an asset a wrong one leads to troublesome situations in our daily lives we have n number of choices to make that proves who we are and what is our thought process .
note: plz kindly do not copy this sketch as it made by me :)
A right choice is made when instead of listening to others we listen to ourselves what our head and heart permits as nobody can exactly understand the phase we go through what is our situation indeed advises are of great help but up to some extent as situation is best analysed and understood by nobody else but us .Take for example choices regarding our careers our parents our friends gives us various advises the same way there was a boy name x he wanted to become a choreographer his parents advised him to become doctor as they had their own reasons and his friends advised him to become dentist now this boy was very confused but he made a choice he decided to become what he wanted as he realized its' his life and there is no better judge than him if he would not follow his head and heart then he may regret it later so he made his choice .
A choice made even if not as big as choice of career and petty as choice of a dress should be the one which should be made on our own rather than listening to others so called great pieces of advises as advises are cheap they come for free you may wear somethings for your loved ones sometime but not always as the way you dress and the way you be is what you are so then why listen to anybody else .
few lines by me :
I do not wish to be you
I do not wish to woo
I am who I am my choices are mine
there are few more lines
being me is not a crime
that is what I consider as prime
a right choice is a mammoth task
do not intervene advise only when I ask
Let me decide
where my head and heart reside
:)
Make a choice like I did it actually bought a positive change and there more optimism than I expect always remember make your own choices follow your head and heart both I emphasis on both as sometimes former may be later or vice versa others do not understand your problems exactly and why accuse them take this chance and just love them :)
note: plz kindly do not copy this sketch as it made by me :)A right choice is made when instead of listening to others we listen to ourselves what our head and heart permits as nobody can exactly understand the phase we go through what is our situation indeed advises are of great help but up to some extent as situation is best analysed and understood by nobody else but us .Take for example choices regarding our careers our parents our friends gives us various advises the same way there was a boy name x he wanted to become a choreographer his parents advised him to become doctor as they had their own reasons and his friends advised him to become dentist now this boy was very confused but he made a choice he decided to become what he wanted as he realized its' his life and there is no better judge than him if he would not follow his head and heart then he may regret it later so he made his choice .
A choice made even if not as big as choice of career and petty as choice of a dress should be the one which should be made on our own rather than listening to others so called great pieces of advises as advises are cheap they come for free you may wear somethings for your loved ones sometime but not always as the way you dress and the way you be is what you are so then why listen to anybody else .
few lines by me :
I do not wish to be you
I do not wish to woo
I am who I am my choices are mine
there are few more lines
being me is not a crime
that is what I consider as prime
a right choice is a mammoth task
do not intervene advise only when I ask
Let me decide
where my head and heart reside
:)
Make a choice like I did it actually bought a positive change and there more optimism than I expect always remember make your own choices follow your head and heart both I emphasis on both as sometimes former may be later or vice versa others do not understand your problems exactly and why accuse them take this chance and just love them :)
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